Life is full of ups and downs, trials and jubilations, sadness and joy…We could go on and on about the different contrasts of our lives which can lead us on a roller coaster of emotions sometimes, but what happens when things are going great and all of a sudden, tragedy hits? We may feel that life has deceived us into a false sense of security; then reality hits and it may make us question was the good our reality to begin with. This could be a variant of life occurrences,

Growing up, I always heard my grandmother telling people to, "Take the High Road!" if she were speaking to them about something troubling. I wondered what that meant. We can hear things as children and as children do, we take it literally and think it to be to go to the highest point in a road or that some roads are higher than others. Life taught me different. I learned the hard way what the true meaning of this adage is, but it took years for me to get it right. So what